They say the camera does not lie. And yet, I look at this photo of Lady Jane taken just yesterday, and I am stunned by how good she looks. She was always a pretty kitty and even at 17 years old, Lady Jane was a beautiful old girl. But, what this image doesn’t show is the sadness that surrounds it. For, it was taken during the brief space of 5 minutes yesterday when she had stopped vomiting, we had already contacted the emergency vet to say we were coming and were about to place her in her carrier for her final car ride. I got her to relax on our bed (truly one of her favourite places) and took a few final pictures. Within 10 minutes of this image, we were on our way.
Lady Jane was a wonderful girl and such a trooper. Cats often are. She had been diagnosed in early October with Chronic Renal Failure and her vet had warned us not to expect more than a couple of months. We were understandably shocked and it took us some time to process the information. We knew she had been losing weight, but I don’t think either my husband, Dean, or I were prepared for the severity of the issue. But our vet kindly answered all of our questions, sent us home with lots of information and medication to stabilize her, and we determined to simply cherish the time we had left.
And you know, we got into a rhythm with giving her her medication and ensuring that she ate properly. It was at that point that we realized that Lady Jane had probably been feeling unwell for some time, because the medication helped her to rally. In the 6 months since her diagnosis, Lady Jane has done things and explored area she had never done before. She learned how to climb onto the desk in my husband’s office so that she could sit on the windowsill and watch the world go by. She no longer used the stool beside our bed which had been placed there to help her old bones get up more easily – she bounded from the floor and back off again. And then sometimes, she leaped from the bed onto the dresser. Her greatest success was when she propelled herself from the couch onto our dining table. Most of these things would certainly would have been unacceptable in our house (no getting up on the dining table!), but the fact that she had the desire and the ability to do it astounded us. For a cat who had lived most of her life on one level (she had been a little portly in her younger years), it was a joy to see her enjoy herself.
And then there was her personality. When we adopted her brother Baxter 18 months ago as a companion to Lady Jane, we could not have picked a better boy. Baxter has confidence, without a hint of aggressiveness. His patient encouragement combined with her feeling much better, and Lady Jane had come out of her shell. She travelled easily and adapted to new environments. She greeted visitors when they came into our home. She stepped outside onto the balcony and felt the sun on her face. It was like she had a bucket list of things to do and we had the joy of seeing her cross things off the list.
We almost convinced ourselves that she would be with us a long time. Our friends would ask how she was doing and we would answer that she was doing remarkably well. Deep down, we knew the disease would eventually get the better of her, but given her newfound love of life and adventure, it seemed a long way off. And, we were not prepared for how quickly it would happen. It seems like on Friday the medication stopped working which translated into Lady Jane being extremely picky over her food. We had been very fortunate that throughout everything she was a great drinker – bowls and bowls of water helped flush her ailing kidneys and kept her happy. But, by yesterday morning, she had stopped drinking, stopped eating and begun almost non-stop vomiting. She also found it very difficult to use the litter box. I gave her her medication to help with the vomiting and offered her her favourite ‘treats’ – chicken and lactose-free milk. She refused the chicken, but lapped up the milk. Only to bring it all up within 10 minutes. It was as if her digestive system was shutting down.
Seeing her suffer this way helped us making a heart-wrenching decision. Of course, not only was it a Sunday but it was a holiday and therefore her regular vet was closed. Which led us to the wonderful people at Vaughn-Richmond Hill VEC who helped her pass, surrounded by the people who loved her most. I got to hold her and I hope that she felt me stroking her and that the last thing she heard was me telling her how much I loved her.
Seventeen years is a long time. A small furry kitten originally from Brampton Animal Shelter left her mark on our lives and on our hearts. She made us smile. She made us laugh. There is now only a gaping hole that she used to inhabit.
Lady Jane, our little furry face. You were loved. Please know, we love you still.
“You’re the one that I love, and I’m saying good-bye…” ~A Great Big World (Say Something)
Such a beautiful story! Sorry to hear about your loss, I know that you have many photos to remember her by!
I do have many images…but somehow it never seems enough. I am glad I could share her with the world. Thanks for your kind words.
Karen, when I saw these photos I remarked what a pretty cat Lady Jane was, and didn’t imagine that they were taken while she was so ill.
I’m so sorry she’s not with you any longer – I know she will be sorely missed. You brought me to tears with her story, and you have my deepest sympathies.
She was beautiful and she hid her illness well. I gasped when I first saw her images because she didn’t look sick…
Oooohhh Karen Im in tears reading this…when I lived in Toronto I always loved watching Lady Jane and Ripley when you and Dean were away….I am so sorry for your lose….she will be missed very much
Thank you so much Tracy. You were one that knew them both from the beginning.
Thank you so much for doing all you could to give her a wonderful life and a peaceful death. I read this lovely tribute in tears.
Thank you Joni.
Such a lasting tribute to Lady Jane. And, a very special, peaceful photograph. I am sorry for your your loss – clearly, Lady Jane felt your love and touch and heard your voice as she crossed over the bridge.
Amazing how much images can comfort us. I am so glad I took the time to take them. Thanks for your kind comment.
Dear Karen & Dean,
So sorry for your loss, they are our children & we love them unconditionally. She knows how much she was loved.
She certainly was loved. And I am sure she knew it. Thanks for your kind words.
What an amazing gift she left you and your husband, the image of her looking beautiful, calm and ready for anything there on the bed. Its amazing what animals know, and how much they give back to us mere mortals.
Paws and hugs to you Karen and Dean,
Thank you Judith. She really was beautiful and I believe she knew.
She is beautiful as is your tribute to her. Sorry for your loss.
Your story made me cry. Pets fill a void in our lives that only animal lovers appreciate. The one consoling thing I can offer is that I have had 10 different cats as pets over the years and because they were all allowed outside as well as in our house and lives, they all just vanished and I never truly got to say goodbye. It was lovely you could hold her while she took her last breath. You may have many animal friends but there will only be one Lady Jane Grey.
So sorry for your loss Karen. She lives on in your heart and your photographs. Hugs to you.
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